The Year in review - 2013

Please Note: Unfortunately this post was one of the blogs (pre.28th of July 2014) that suffered a 'Blogger' crash.. which saw all images vanishing! I have tried to replace the images from the crash as best as I can. However images of me with products etc.. may be lost as a result and therefore the images you see may not match the text(which is original and was not effected by the crash). My blog has therefore had to start fresh and all blogs starting from July 29th 2014 are correct with the appropriate, original and correct images but unfortunately the same can not be said for images lost in posts before this date. Apologies for any inconvenience caused. Shahira xo

Hey Blog Readers! 

Firstly I want to wish you all a HAPPY New Year! Whether you are sad to let go of 2013 or glad to see the back of it I hope the New Year brings you all the Happiness in the world! 

"Rough times may come but they will not come to stay-they come to pass!"
"It's very important for you to believe that you are the one and that you can!" 

I truly feel that self-belief is one of the most powerful and life-changing feelings that you can have. I'm not talking about being big-headed or self-centered in anyway but simply believing in yourself and your abilities will bring you so far! after all how can you expect anyone else to believe in you if you don't believe in yourself? Life is so precious and so short so my hope for all my lovely blog readers, friends, family and everyone who has supported me this year is that you find that self-belief to live happily and chase your dreams! when you believe in yourself magical things begin to happen!x!

My Year in Review

Many of you who read my blog follow me on facebook/twitter/instagram etc... and if you do I'm sure you have seen too many of my photos and posts (regular occurrence) which show what an amazing time I've had in terms of my three months in Los Angeles etc... so I don't feel that I need to dwell on that too much by re-posting the pictures on here- therefore I'll just review on some of my favourite parts of 2013 and sum it up in my own way :)

My top 10 Career highlights (no particular order) this year included... 

1) Modelling in London for Loaded magazine!

 

2) My cover feature for Galway Now -It made me feel proud that my home town honoured my successes in this way.

 

3) Music Videos in LA and getting to hang out and work in the company of so many great talents that I look up to! Such as Enrique Iglesias, Chris Brown, Nicki Minaj, Tyga and Bone Thugs N Harmony :) 

4) Having constant interest with work offers, auditions and castings come my way in Los Angeles: It's risky business leaving your home country where you have started to make moves and succeed in order to be thrown into the heart of your industry, half way across the world with millions of people trying to do the same thing you want to do! You go from trying to be a big fish in a small pond to being a tiny fish in a massive pond! So the relief when I was kept constantly busy and in demand abroad was a breath of fresh air! I am happiest when I am working and I can see progress in motion. I was even booked for a small acting role in an Al Pacino movie (Unfortunately I was unable to take it due to documentation but simply getting the role gave me hope and made me decide to focus some more on acting as that may be a door for me in the future). One of my favourite jobs was for Zooop It Up comfy wear- It was simply such a fun day, on a beautiful yacht, in a beautiful location and I made lots of new friends that day!

5) Doing my first ever TV interview - on Ireland AM. I really want to move into more TV work so being booked for an interview with Ireland AM gave me such a boost! To watch my interview click here!

6) Another year of regular, positive press and a move from solely tabloid coverage to attracting the interest of bookies-Paddy power (on many occasions and topping polls) plus glossy's such as RSVP magazine etc... 

 

7) International press coverage: Having my pictures feature internationally and not solely in Ireland- This included the UK, USA, Bangladesh, The Philippines and Mexico and always came as a surprise to me, of course a very pleasant surprise that anyone on an international basis would have any interest in me as a model or person in general!-one small move for mankind one huge success in the world of modelling and entertainment for a small town girl :) 

e.g. Playboy's Smoking Jacket-

 

8) Placing second in the Irish Hot 100 - I genuinely didn't expect to be included in the top100 to begin with so to place second was AMAZING for me! Especially knowing that I was continually voted there by a public vote- The support everyone has shown me this past year has been out of this world! and I thank you so much if you support me - I love you! :)

9) Joining a reputable Talent Agency: My collaboration and joining with Talent Base for representation with regards to talent -Singing, acting, dancing, modelling etc... They are so positive and encouraging with regards to my career. I am very glad to have them on my team and to be apart of their team! 

10) Launching my first ever official Calendar! I am thrilled to have a calendar out- which is available online at www.calendargirlsuk.com  

Personal Life Highlights

1) Spending much of my summer at the wonderful Playboy Mansion as a guest of one of my business icons Mr.Hugh Hefner! I'm so appreciative to him for everything-I feel like playboy entering my life changed the game in so many ways for me because it made me open my eyes to dreams that can come true! and I believe anything is possible! I am appreciative for the many new friends I made there, eating the delicious food, watching movies in the comfort of a beautiful home, lounging by the pool, the laughs, the big parties and simply some of the best days and memories of my life!x!

2) All of my time in the USA! the people I met, the places I visited, the hikes, the trips, the frozen yogurt the new friends, the nights out, the parties - everything that made my time there magical and unforgettable!

  

 

3) Coming into my own! It's true that travelling changes you but I don't feel that I have changed as such.. I simply feel that I have come into my own and I am expressive of my personality: I know who I am and I am happy and confident within myself! I genuinely don't care what negative people think of me - I have let go of all negativity! I am doing what I love, I am wearing what I want, expressing msyelf and being me! and I have found happiness as a result :) 

4) Finally gaining the courage to stop associating myself with people who bring me down and to let go of people who aren't real friends or a positive influence in my life. This wasn't easy! For years I clung on to people who really didn't want the best for me - I clung on and kept them too close in my heart for different reasons.. the memories we once shared, the simpler times, the loss of a friend who connected us all and simply the significant time that some had been a part of my life. I reached my wits-end this year when a few I once called friends basically back-stabbed and bullied me in many ways. Another I found out to be a complete user who had manipulated and used situations for their own significant personal gain. I am in such a happier place since I stopped clinging on and let those few people go! Since doing this some new positive people have come into my life and I am so grateful! I am so much stronger and happier in myself :)

5) Starting acting classes to improve my skills in that area. I have always been involved in acting as I was in many performing arts groups and societies growing up and throughout college but I often neglected the area of acting and concentrated more on singing/dancing. However, since starting to model I have had many acting opportunities come my way so I decided I would join Galway Youth Theater and try to improve my acting skills. I have learnt so much and I feel that this is an area that may work well for me and there may be a future for me with acting! I feel that being happy and confident within my self and coming into my own has helped me to have the confidence to commit to a role and improve my acting skills significantly!

 

6) Doing a Strictly Come Dancing for Charity: I took part in a strictly come dancing for the Galway Rape Crisis Center and I placed in the top 5. I feel that this helped me as it gave me a focus when I arrived home from such a busy time in LA. It took a lot of my spare time and it wasn't always easy but I really enjoyed it, meeting new people and making new friends! I had never done ballroom dancing but in general I love dancing so I loved learning a new style!x! 

7) Learning the kindness of strangers, they can surprise you, and discovering that you can have the ability to inspire people in a positive way. I have received so many encouraging, beautiful messages, emails, comments etc.. this year from people I know and also from complete strangers! these messages have lifted me up on some of my down days and I am so grateful for the wonderful support! here are a couple of examples!

 

8) Christmas with my mum and sister. I have a very small family! and Christmas is a very difficult time for me because it is the anniversary of someone very special to me. This year marked the 4 year anniversary. It doesn't get easier and although I was filled with sadness on the inside I decided to be grateful for the time with my beautiful and wonderful mum and sister! My sister lives in Cork and I am planning to move abroad in 2014 so the time we spend as a three-o is so precious to me because they are the two people I love the most in the world! I may not have the biggest family but I have the closest and full of the most love!x! 

 

9) The hikes with my mother in Co.Clare. Before I went away me and my mum started hiking a lot. We did it to spend some time together before I left for the US, to catch up, get outdoors, enjoy the fresh air, reflect and often to get over a stressful situation- I found that going to clare and spending the day hiking and chatting was very therapeutic and I cherish those "back to basics" simple times, and memories. 

10) Learning to cope with hardship. I have been so blessed in 2013 and so lucky! I have had an amazing year which I am forever thankful for but it hasn't been without it's hardships! I have learnt strategies to cope, I've learnt to keep certain things in my heart and I've learnt to never explain yourself to anyone because those that matter don't need it and those that don't won't believe it! 

Click here to read my blog on dealing with negativity. 

To see moments from my 2013 come to life watch my 30second Flipagram by clicking here!!  

My hopes for 2014! 

Love, health, wealth and happiness! 

My Goals! 

I feel that to share your personal and career goals for a New Year is setting yourself up to fail and I would rather take them seriously and plough on myself.  All I will say is that I hope to return to Los Angeles and I hope to see as much, if not more,  progress in my career when compared to 2013 and to keep climbing the stairs to where I want to be. 

I am so grateful for 2013 and I am so hopeful for 2014! :)  

Thank you to everyone who has read my blogs this year-I really appreciate it!x! 

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!X!!

 

Lots of Love,

Shahira Xo 

If your company would like a review or specific blog-post on a product, treatment, service or any other item to appear on www.shahirabarry.com email info@shahirabarry.com with the details.

Tips on getting rid of negativity

Please Note: Unfortunately this post was one of the blogs (pre.28th of July 2014) that suffered a 'Blogger' crash.. which saw all images vanishing! I have tried to replace the images from the crash as best as I can. However images of me with products etc.. may be lost as a result and therefore the images you see may not match the text(which is original and was not effected by the crash). My blog has therefore had to start fresh and all blogs starting from July 29th 2014 are correct with the appropriate, original and correct images but unfortunately the same can not be said for images lost in posts before this date. Apologies for any inconvenience caused. Shahira xo

Hey Blog Readers! 

I hope you all had a Great and  Merry Christmas! and that you're looking forward to starting a New Year!

I can't WAIT :) 2014... COME AT ME!! :) lol. Lets hope it's a good one!x! 

I am a huge believer that living in as negative-free a zone as possible makes for a happy life :) 

It's easy to get negative at times but just from my own life as an example I know that I am so much happier in myself when I make a conscious effort to be positive.. even when things aren't going as planned! and believe me it is a conscious effort that I have to put into place every day because everyone has day to day struggles! 

'Negativity', as the simple word itself implies, is a bad thing! I truly believe negative, unnecessary, thoughts are toxic and they feed of the negative energy that they create! Now please don't get me wrong-I'm not talking about genuine opinions and expressing them-Nobody wants to be a walking robot who agrees with everything that is said and has no opinions at all. I'm not talking about opinions-I think it's great to express how you're feeling and what you think. But what I'm referring to is to let go of the emotions and thoughts that make you feel bad which may cause you to either bottle it up (causing damage to yourself) or express that negative energy (which won't solve your problem, or may hurt another). 

Again I am not talking about expressing justified opinions such as politics, social inequality or simple every day things such as liking an outfit or not liking an outfit! No those are opinions I'm talking about negative emotions-it's hard for me to explain in writing but you know yourself those feelings and emotions when you feel them because they make you feel bad inside- such as hatred, jealousy, self-criticism, lack of self worth, comparison to others in a negative way, not thinking your life is good enough - anything like that! 

It affects your mental state: 

Negativity is like a disease it can infect your thoughts and give out bad energy which will return to you in other aspects of your life. It's not worth it! 

Being negative attracts more negativity into your life: 

I have read the book The Secret and I believe it 100% ... mostly because I feel it has worked in my life so I plan to continue living by it. The secret is based around the Law of Attraction. So in terms of negativity when you send negativity out into the universe, that negativity comes full circle and brings more negativity back into your life. It’s the law of attraction at work. According to this theory, when people have negative thoughts, it can directly affect the things that happen in their lives. Every time you communicate negative ideas, such as discussing things that you don’t want to happen to you, you actually give those things more attention and energy. 

It can Prevent You From Living A Fulfilled Life

Negativity can effect just about every area of your life, including your home life, workplace and your relationships with others. When negativity invades your life, it can prevent good things form happening to you. People surrounded by negativity generally live much less happier lives than those who surround themselves with positive energies.

My Top 5 Tips for banishing negativity from your life

1) Teach yourself to be optimistic: Life isn't all bad. When you feel negative list 3-5 good things about your life in your head or write them down for yourself. When you think of them be grateful that those things are apart of your life. Gratitude is key. 

2) If you're having a negative thought towards someone else.. take a minute to ask yourself why are you feeling this way-is it because someone has something that you would like etc..? reflect on why you are feeling that way and instead of channeling it in a negative way (which will make you feel worse in the long run) think about how this feeling can help to make you a better person and how you can use it as inspiration to better yourself. Is there a change that you need to make in your life to make it better? remember it starts with small steps not big ones. Being negative towards another individual ONLY gives that person more energy and causes a bigger problem for yourself. Switch your focus!

3) Surround yourself with Positive people only. This will subconsciously do a lot to create positive thinking and a positive life. Positive people give us energy and strength required to achieve tasks which grows our confidence further. 

4) Perform Self Hypnosis: Doing this will allow you to improve your power of concentration. You can then concentrate more easily on positive thoughts. Visualization is the funnel of energy.Try it! it will help you change your view towards life. Imagine something that makes you happy-it will attract happy thoughts :)

5) Listen to Music that makes you feel good! (or do something that makes you feel good!) if you're feeling negative make a conscious effort to do something that makes you feel happy & good in yourself. For example stick on one of your favorite songs. I have a few songs that I call my fighter songs and when I listen to them they make me feel really happy and strong! These songs immediately make me feel good and in return release positive energy :) 

YOU have the power to switch it around! Don't get stuck in quick sand of negative vibrations!x 

Lots of Love, 

Shahira Xo 

If your company would like a review or specific blog-post on a product, treatment, service or any other item to appear on www.shahirabarry.com email info@shahirabarry.com with the details.

Clever ideas for saving MONEY and gaining a good BOOTAY ;)

Please Note: Unfortunately this post was one of the blogs (pre.28th of July 2014) that suffered a 'Blogger' crash.. which saw all images vanishing! I have tried to replace the images from the crash as best as I can. However images of me with products etc.. may be lost as a result and therefore the images you see may not match the text(which is original and was not effected by the crash). My blog has therefore had to start fresh and all blogs starting from July 29th 2014 are correct with the appropriate, original and correct images but unfortunately the same can not be said for images lost in posts before this date. Apologies for any inconvenience caused. Shahira xo

Hey Blog Readers! 

I saw these pictures posted on facebook this week and I thought that they were cute and clever so I decided to quickly share them :) 

The first one on saving money...(Obviously change it to your own currency)

It's always a good idea to have savings (you never know when you might need them) so if you follow this chart you'd save well over a thousand euro simply and easily and you could then spend it on something special or save it, repeat and watch the money grow ;) 

I think it's a really good idea and I'm definitely going to give it a go!x! 

Ladies we all know Size Zero is no more! the past few years have seen the return of the curves with celebs like Kim Kardashian making curves the ideal body image! every girl wants that hour glass figure and growing a nice bum is more important than ever! ;) That's where the 30 day squat challenge comes in! 

This is an easy to follow, doable approach for girls who don't know where to start with squats! If you're more advanced you could add a weight to up the intensity! 

My trainer, Dave from Results Ireland, got me into squats and now I'm obsessed! .. I always feel a bit funny doing them but I've noticed a big improvement and I intend on keeping it up :) 

Ass to the Grass! ;)

I found this on google (it's not mine)

On a different personal note.. 

A 30 day challenge that I set myself recently is to drink 2ltrs of water a day! I started this for many reasons but mostly because I have always been aware I don't drink enough (at all!) I'm 100% sure I'm dehydrated most of the time! So to get hydrated and healthy I've turned to water :) I've already started to notice benefits-such as having more energy, generally feeling better and my under eye circles have reduced! I started it as a 30 day challenge to see if it made a difference (I'm not through the 30days yet) but I'm definitely going to keep this up for good! the only downside is needing to pee- a lot more :/ :P 

News!

Instead of my Friday blog post this week.. tomorrow,Thursday,  I will Blog to tell you about a competition that I am launching on FRIDAY at Lunch time! Keep an eye on my facebook page for details!x

Lots of Love,

Shahira Xo

If your company would like a review or specific blog-post on a product, treatment, service or any other item to appear on www.shahirabarry.com email info@shahirabarry.com with the details.

Strictly Come Dancing

Hey there!x!

So on Friday I took part in a Strictly Come Dancing for the Galway Rape Crisis center. The event itself was out in Cliffden and I'll get right to it-it was an absolute blast! I really enjoyed dancing and taking part!
I have always loved hiphop/modern dance but ballroom was completely new to me!
We started training a month before hand and while some of the rehearsals were stressful it all came together in the end!
My dance partner was John King. I actually went to school with John for a couple of years and at one point when we were kids we danced together in a Greece performance so it was funny to be paired together again. John took to dancing very easily so I was happy to be paired with him.

DK Fashion made my costumes and I loved them! I wore a tight, white, feathered dress with a chain choker detail for the Waltz and a BRIGHT, tasseled skirt and top for the cha cha! The tassels were so much fun to dance and shake my ass in ;) lol

Hedz Hair Salon in Cliffden did my hair for me :)

Here are the pictures...

Myself and Laura who was also dancing in the Strictly :)

Above is myself and my Dance Partner, John, A big Thank You to John for being such a good sport and partner to dance with - I couldn't have asked for better :)

Myself and John made the TOP5 - which I was pleasantly surprised at because the crowd (who could vote 50% of the vote: the other 50% was decided by judges) were mostly from Cliffden and were there to support people they knew so I didn't think we could get the votes. It was great that we did and I was over the moon!x!

I 100% believe that you can learn/do anything you set your mind to! and I thoroughly enjoyed learning how to Ballroom Dance!
Another point I'd like to add is that sometimes people can try to bring you down because you are trying something new or different. Often people like to put you in one category and when you break out of that category it makes them feel uncomfortable and they feel a need to try to belittle what you're doing. Don't listen to Negative Nancies - even if these people are disguised as "friends"! YOU have one life to live so just live it your way, rise to challenges and do whatever it is you want to do which helps you to ultimately grow as a person, be an individual and be the BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE! :)

A huge THANK YOU to Ferenc Hanó from the Galway Dance Academy for giving his time to teach us to ballroom dance :) He is a brilliant teacher and I would definitely recommend him if you're interested in taking classes!

Again Thank You to DK Fashion and Hedz Hair Salon for my costumes and hair styling :)

I danced a Jive, ChaCha and Waltz - I'll post videos to my website channel later this week ;)

It was a very successful event for a worthy cause - The Rape Crisis Center! The rape crisis center is dedicated to providing a professional, caring and confidential counselling and support services for those in our community affected by sexual abuse and sexual violence. They also work towards ending cultural societal tolerance of sexual violence through advocacy, awareness raising and educational programmes.

GRCC is a great cause and it was a pleasure to take part!

Lots of Love, 

Shahira Xo

If your company would like a review or specific blog-post on a product, treatment, service or any other item to appear on www.shahirabarry.com email info@shahirabarry.com with the details.